Posts Tagged ‘trying’
I suspect my husband’s best friend is trying to hook him up with his sister, what should I do?
My husband Stan and I have been together since I was 20 and he was 18. Now, I’m 37 and he’s 35. Together for 17 years (legally married for 11 years). We have a son and a daughter, ages 14 and 8. Stan and his best friend Jimmy have been best friends since elementary school. For the sake of my husband and how much I love him, I tolerated Jimmy for SEVENTEEN YEARS, but I swear I am DONE with him. Stan and I recently moved to California, we’re originally from Arizona along with most of our family and friends. Stan has been in Arizona without me and the kids for 5 weeks now; he’s coming back on Thursday. His stepmother was sick(she died 3 weeks ago) and he helped take care of her until then. His father’s been dead for 14 years already, so now it’s just him, his siblings and stepsiblings.
I know Stan is grieving and believe me, I feel awful. If it wasn’t for work, the kids and I would be in Arizona with him. HOWEVER, he’s obviously not too devastated to be hanging out with Jimmy all the time. How about he spend more time with his siblings who are also mourning their mother/stepmother???? The thing that makes me so uncomfortable about Jimmy is that his sister Janice lives across the street from him and she’s had a thing for my husband since forever. She never outgrew her childhood crush and it’s sad. She claims to be bi, so she flirts with me too. Stan thinks it’s cute but I don’t. Jimmy always resented my relationship with Stan. I don’t understand why Janice has to hang with Jimmy and Stan everywhere they go. When I expess my discomfort, my husband brushes me off. Jimmy is a bad influence, he’s known to get all of his buddies together and go clubbing and flirting with women when they ALL have wives. My husband behaves though and he thinks that’s all should matter but NO. I don’t like the influence his friend has on him. Honestly, jimmy’s “bond” with my husband scares me sometimes. Stan told me that Jimmy told his own wife that Stan will always come before her if he had to choose. If he expects my husband to put him before me, he is mistaken. My man comes before any of my girlfriends. No one except my children come before my husband, that is it. Stan, Jimmy, Janice and a few other went out to a bar together. I lost it and had a huge argument with Stan’s DRUNKASS over the phone. He doesn’t get it. I don’t think he’s screwing with Janice; I’m just uncomfortable with her presence and my absence. Stan and I have cheated on each other a few times a LONG time ago but we vowed that once we tied the knot, all that stops. I kept my promise for 11 years and I’m sure he has too. But still, am I being too unreasonable?
Is she trying to make me jealous?(10 points for best answer girls please)?
Theres this girl i like and i talked to her before.. well.. Today i saw her looking at me during one of my classes. Later on in the day, the teacher gave us freetime to do whatever we want. A guy said hi to her(but she ignored him and i seen this a lot of times she doesn’t really talk to guys). I played my ipodtouch and she was in the back behind me playing a game with other people. She suddenly started laughing and sorta talking with other guys when i was looking back to see what they were doing(i was sorta irritated). So then i brushed it off and was like whatever and stopped paying attention. But i felt curious and i looked through the reflection on my ipod touch to see what she was doing. She looked like she was concentrating on playing the game, but i saw her look up from the table and looked straight at me(this happened 3 times). A bit later on when i didn’t turn back, she suddenly stopped playing the game and didn’t talk to the guys.. Was she trying to make me jealous or was i imaging? it sorta irritates me and pisses me off..
Mother in law trying to break up marriage ?
So this crazy lady tells her son that family will always be family but a wife becomes an ex-wife. Funny because she had maids taking care of him and his brother from the time they were born to almost a teenager. as he got older she would always talk down on him. They argued almost all the time and get way of dealing with it is pouting like a little kid, screaming gibberish and tell him to get the F out. Bitch don’t know how to talk to her own kid, he’s a sweet guy too. Since being married and have a child, he’s quit smoking and gotten his life on track. That crazy lady always bring up bad things that he did growing up which was over 15 years ago, he’s now 27. But when it’s the good she just brush it off. His younger brother who’s 24, married and still lives with his parents with his wife always get the special treatment. He’s a mommas boy. Everything they do that bitch seems to be easily pleased but she always sees us as the bad guys cuz we don’t kiss ass. we have our happy life, own place and do what we want. Anyways she’s always put my husband down. She’s mad since we live on opposite coast that we refuse to move to where she’s at. I’m from Cali and my hubby loves it too. So that’s when the bitch starts to find what she can so my hubby will leave me and move close to her so she can see her grandson more. For her to treat her son like he was worthless then try and make up when she can’t stand my honest opinion about things then hit him up with ‘a family is family but a wife becomes an ex-wife’. She always seen him as failure.Then she accuse me of manipulating him, said he has a weak mind. Bitch goes talking $h!t about him then try to turn him against me. He is a grown a$$ man he can make his own decision, for her to tell him to find another wife is stupid. She steps all over her husband and talks sh!t to him like a dog. He loves her so much he let’s her talk $h!t her own son and me. We do our best to please her. Were keeping our distance from her.
The question is how do you feel about the MIL saying “family is family but a wife becomes an ex-wife” after she said and done all that
I am trying to find cheap make up brush sets?
I currently bought an eye shadow pallet and it didn’t come with any make up brushes. Where can i find really cheap brush sets?
